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Creating a positive Structure in my life

Posted on Jan 18th, 2007 by Leendert : Illuminator ES Leendert

There were periods in my life I needed  more discipline and there were times I needed to be more spontaneous. This was because there lack of structure when I grew up. I was flowing from... More »

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Finding Balance between Fun and Structure

Posted on Jan 17th, 2007 by Leendert : Illuminator ES Leendert

I look at it this way, all these qualities inside of me, strong ones, weaker ones, can be developed and balanced. I see it as tools to shape the life I want by taking away... More »

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Enjoy your discipline!

Posted on Jan 16th, 2007 by Leendert : Illuminator ES Leendert

I use to look for extremities to enjoy myself, driving fast, race-cars, fast horse-riding, join the Army (?!, jump out of an airplane (with a parachute), fly an airplane, Hike trough the Middle East (fun!),... More »

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The Polarity between Sloppy and Shipshape

Posted on Jun 12th, 2006 by Leendert : Illuminator ES Leendert

In regards to the relationships between me and others and myself, there are many polarities. Often these contradictions lead to conflicts. For example the conflict between structure and spontaneity. Because opposites attract most relationship deal with... More »

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